Hilda, I’d like to thank you for your care, effort and support with our family.  I know my father has been very happy, the life he enjoyed with you as his wife and partner. I believe we shared a common outlook, practical and pragmatic.  But while mine is reserved and introverted, yours was welcoming. Allowing me into your family. Thank you for that. And thank you for looking after my dad. With my fondest memories, goodbye mum, your stepson Simon.